Es gibt große Unterschiede darin, was japanische Frauen von einem Ehemann erwarten, im Vergleich zu westlichen Frauen. Im Westen: 1) Zuneigung, 2) Kommunikationsfähigkeiten, 3) Sinn für Humor. In Japan: 1) Jahreseinkommen/finanzielle Stabilität, 2) Beruf/Bildungshintergrund, 3) Sauberkeit/Pflege
https://president.jp/articles/-/114004
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Super reasonable .
Some western women care about annual income as a priority but they are the ones who usually end up alone
Some questions:
1) Are there Japanese girls out there that have more Westernized values? (e.g. Personality > Money / Materialism)
2) I saw a Japanese girl that had a condition / 条件 of 10 Million JPY per year.
Where does the 10M / year figure come from?
And what is the basis / computation for it?
Or is it just some random number being thrown out?
I mean Japan is a basically a third world country so it makes sense. They like to act like they’re better than SEA or china but they’re really not.
Japanese Men have similar standards for „Wife Material“ and Japanese Spouses (M & F) casually cheat on the same scale that old white dudes „casually drink“ while playing golf.
This is clearly bollocks.
My wife wanted Colin Firth*, but I was actually available.
*Antonio Banderas was also an option, but I can’t speak Spanish.
結婚相手に求める条件トップ5
① 愛情・フィーリング
② コミュニケーション能力
③ ユーモア・一緒に楽しめるか
④ 自立しているか
⑤ 外見の魅力
What nonsense is that? I struggle to believe that foreign women care so little about their partner’s financial status. This is like when my grandmother asked me what type of woman is my type and I answer quiet, good cook and kind when I actually want to say busty health club girl in a JK uniform.
So they’re gold diggers ? Okay
Western women require the latter 3 to match on the apps, then require the former 3 once the relationship is sealed. All valid things to seek in a partner anyway.
Tbf #1 and #3 from the Japanese are taken for granted and baked into the Western calculus already.
Actually #2 as well, but people are ready to overlook occupation/education if their net worth or income can compensate that.
I think they interpret the question differently. Each side assumes the other three choices are a given, so they need to rank the rest.
That chart is not working on my phone at all, is the one axis age? Because age is extremely important for this sort of thing. I’m assuming it’s looking at women who are dating in the same way in both countries, as well….Their own incomes/wealth would also need to be considered….
I was in Japan in the 2010s, so things may have changed, but this does surprise me. When I went on dates or was in relationships, it was actually the norm for the girl to pay her share, more than it was in the US (at least in my area).