Hallo, im nächsten Monat werde ich an einer Hochzeit unserer Familie teilnehmen. Ich komme aus Indonesien und da ist es in Ordnung, einer Hochzeit etwas weißes Farbe zu tragen. Es ist nur normal. Wenn ich so etwas trage, ist es dann als unangemessen angesehen? Ich möchte nicht komisch aussehen. Dank im Voraus.
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Von Mars_2710
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To be honest white is always a no go at weddings unless you’re the bride
Of all the colors existing in the world, why would you choose white for a wedding as a guest
Generally, I would suggest to avoid it to be safe. However, when in doubt, just ask the bride – us Dutchies are direct enough to get a honest answer.
Yes that is generally considered inappropriate. Maybe ask the bride?
I would do a different color. white is still langely considered a bride only color here.
Just check with the bride. She is the one person that can say yes or no.
If you can’t or won’t ask and you are doubting whether or not it is appropriate your best option is to not wear it.
Ask the couple getting married if they would mind
I like the skirt and blouse! The cape/cardigan? (I don’t recognize this clothing article haha sorry) seems way too white though. Definitely would replace that with something else.
As long as you’re not trying to upstage the bride I think you’re fine – But as for me, I personally would not wear white.
Why would you want to wear white at someone else wedding? Did we run out of other colours?
If you have to ask, don’t do jt
Send a picture of the outfit to the couple and let them decide instead of asking strangers on the internet. Depending on the culture and mindset of people, this is definitely a nono. But you wont know for sure until you ask the actual people involved
Just ask! Especially if it’s a normal thing in the culture you’re used to, I’d even encourage you to do so if it were my own wedding. But to avoid any misunderstanding, just ask the couple!
I went to 3 weddings as adult. Once wearing a white slightly informall dress, another in a full suit, another in just a t-shirt. Best to coordinate with the bride & groom or whoemever is organizing the wedding. Expect a direct answer and expect anything not explicitly discouraged to be fine
As a woman i would say never wear white
You should not wear white. But really I don’t think anyone should wear this outfit at all. Anywhere.
Yes are you mental
Yes, but you can always check with the bride
Just don’t.
All the Dutch people will be underdressed anyway 😂 Unless really posh and formal. We have a terrible sense of occasion really. But do check before hand 😉 Enjoy the wedding!
What a weird advice I read from most. Do not ask. It is highly inappropriate to wear white at a wedding. It’s not common in Dutch culture at all, it’s not a ‘maybe’ either.
You can pick any other color. Do not wear white.