Meine Freundin hat mich am 20. Juni eingeladen und mir erzählt, dass sie mich betrogen hat und sich dafür entschieden hat, mit mir zusammen zu sein "der andere Mann".
Das ist die Reaktion meines Körpers auf diese Nachricht.
Von meiner Samsung Galaxy Watch aufgezeichnete Herzfrequenz-, Schlaf- und Energiewerte.
Von VanillaWhiteGuy
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Please show the graph of available free time
Sorry to see that. My biometric was messed up for a week but the pain lasted half a year
Not a great situation and not great sleep either, but glad to see sleep picking back up and your energy seems like its doing ok. It will get better!
I’m sorry but your username really enhances the lore behind this situation in my mind.
You coped really well. I remember when I was heartbroken. I couldn’t sleep a single hour for 5 straight days.
„Watch this Lis. You can actually pinpoint the second when his heart rips in half. „
Wtf is energy score.
Only thing missing now is aura.
Hey brother, for what it’s worth, the „other man“ now has to live with the fact his missus is a known cheater. You got the best deal here, even if it doesn’t feel like it. Totally normal to need some recovery time after something like that, lean on people whenever you can.
You will feel better. Take care of yourself
Glad you got some good rest over the weekend. Still sucks
Pretty normal. It will get better.
Same thing happened to me when I got laid off
Trash takes itself out. Be well. You may not really see it now, but it’s for the best.
So sorry you’re going through this. I also had a cheater give me a brutal break up. Never wish that on anyone.
I’m sorry that you’re going through this brother. Time heals all wounds, and it’s for the best that this deceitful person is no longer in your life.
Remember that the best revenge is to live well.
There’s something very modern-art-y about this. Just the idea of heartbreak being distilled into digital records.
This shows why old people die so soon after their partner does. People say they died of a broken heart and now you have the data.
Not sure if I’m watching data of someone who was sad and anxious or post break-up sex hookup on the 22nd and 23rd.
Hang on, buddy. Life will get better.
This was me during my first bad break up almost 10 years ago, of course I don’t have data to prove it, but I can feel this image. It will get better, give yourself grace and take it one moment at a time.
Bro… chase your silly dreams
Hope you’re OK. I can understand how it felt
You should be relieved, eventually. But of course always very hard to be blindsided by the woman u call ur woman not actually being or acting like ur woman. The same way they met is the same way it will end, every time. U never really know who someone is, that’s why people breakup, get divorced…
Here’s the good news: You won’t spend the rest of your life with a cheater, and the other guy is now in the unenviable position of having a girlfriend who cheats on people. He probably just wants to get laid and doesn’t care about her, so now she’s going to learn a lesson about how compromising morality for personal convenience can destroy your value in the eyes of others.
This is actually a good thing. Better now, than when you’re married.
Just remember her actions are in NO WAY a reflection of your worth. Stay strong and take it day by day. Take the time to sit with this and feel what you need to feel, but stay resilient. Your future self will love you for this.
I’m so sorry, my friend. Hugs
Didn’t have a cheating situation but in our last convo where we finalized that it was ending my watch said I spiked to 211bpm. Sleep has gotten much better since though! Hang in there friend, it’ll get better, onto to greater things. Take care of yourself!
You’re dodging a massive bullet but it hurts just the same. It’ll take time to heal, and then you can look for someone who isn’t shitty.
I tend to relief stress by going on evening runs as well… Jokes aside, before my first breakup, I never would have thought feelings could make your body hurt. I feel for you, but as others in this thread have mentioned already: It might feel like a loss in the beginning, but you’ll be the winner in the long run <3
This post removed and please repost on Monday. It is Monday??? Auto mod tripping.
Removed for not posting on a Monday while it’s currently Monday?
Actually lame as fuck they removed this. It is Monday and there is no Tinder data per their mod team comment. Boooooo mods
This is actually good news, you dodged a bullet, and be glad you found out before things developed and got to stick with a cheater for the rest of your life.
You know… sometimes data ISN’T beautiful
been there buddy.
it gets better.
So sorry brother! I send you a virtual hug. Talk to your close friends and family about it. Let that stress out.
Funny how life goes buddy, because on that day at that time exactly I said my vows to my wife. Not kidding. Wild.
I guess you and I are a reminder to each other of the grand scale of life. We all have highs and lows and the cycle continues. Thank you for posting this and something I said in my vows that might apply here:
„Love, like all emotions (even sadness), are temporary. The feelings of love (or sadness) will eventually fade. It’s the choices we make that define us and our future“
just to let you know that it will get better. it doesn’t feel like it now, but it will be okay. I promise
Really sorry this happened. The effects are obvious. But…
As hard as it is to hear, it’s the better outcome. Her coming to you and breaking it up is infinitely better than if you found out on your own or if you decided to stay together afterward. You deserve better. It’ll be hard, but move on from her and find someone that deserves you.
Short term L, long term immense W. Take care
I’m sorry mate. If this helps you cope, great. But remember that you owe no one anything.
Must be really difficult! But it’ll pass 🙂
Your energy score is showing you your future
Had a similar thing happening, it was another lady tho
You now have all the time for yourself and to explore YOUR needs bro. Take the positives and just acknowlede that she isn’t part of your beautiful life anymore.
That’s it. It’s YOUR beautiful life and she was part of it. She was NOT your life.
All the best to you and good luvk on Our journey bro 🙂
And in case you need it: r/guycry is always there for you<3
I just hope you come to realise this is the best possible outcome when we’re talking about a person like that.
She won’t change and she can’t be trusted. So you’re much better off.
I know it stings but now you have your whole life ahead of you.
Just remember to focus on yoursef
Brother, I know this is a data sub Reddit.
But how you actually doing? Asking as a random kind stranger on the internet.