Ein vermindertes Zugehörigkeitsgefühl verbindet emotionalen Missbrauch in der Kindheit mit unglücklicheren Liebesbeziehungen
A reduced sense of belonging links childhood emotional abuse to unhappier romantic relationships
Ein vermindertes Zugehörigkeitsgefühl verbindet emotionalen Missbrauch in der Kindheit mit unglücklicheren Liebesbeziehungen
A reduced sense of belonging links childhood emotional abuse to unhappier romantic relationships
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kinda makes sense, if your main social interaction as a kid was the feeling of being unwanted and hated, you havent really grown the psychological muscle of how to accept being loved, so any situation you are intimate in, you would feel like an impostor, truly never able to let go and experience it.
probably developing telltale signs, like an inability to accept compliments, or immediate feelings of squirmy bashfulness when people try to give you love.
The real kicker is deep down there often seems to be an unconscious drive to recreate those conditions even in adulthood. It’s like despite the pain, it is missed or held onto, like a load bearing wall that’s difficult to shift directly.
Wonderful. I’m gonna be a terrible wife to someone. Jfc…