Kontext: Auf der Suche nach LTR in London.
Dies basiert auf Daten nach dem Spiel, da der Hinge-Export keine Likes enthält. (Ich glaube sowieso nicht, dass die Likes-Daten etwas Neues aussagen würden, da hohe Volumina für heterosexuelle Frauen gut dokumentiert sind.)
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Von okra-3117
27 Kommentare
What’s your definition of „no conversation“ and „dead end“?
These dating sankey charts are getting boring now. After each one I see, I think… “so what?”
Curious about the 2 dates you declined.
0-31 on initiating a date is crazy
How many unsolicited D pics?
You have got life on easy mode ngl
I always want to see a picture of the people who post these.
Wasn’t there a similar post today, from a guy who got ~60 matches total over a year, on Hinge and Tinder combined?
I feel like a lot of the important data here are what’s NOT in the chart.
You had a ‘no conversation’ category that’s huge – does this mean no messages were sent? IOW did you try to initiate a conversation at all and they didn’t respond, or did you just expect all the people you matched with to start the convo?
You also have a ‘dead end’ category without definition… based on the complimentary category, the implication is that ‘dead end’ is <5 messages – is that true? Why did you let the conversation end- were these people responding dryly, did you not want to participate in a conversation, or was there just no mutual interest?
Finally, your first date invite category doesn’t have a definition- were all these invited by the other person? This is logic assumption based on your sub categories ‘I declined’ or ‘he canceled’.
56 matches in 3 weeks is all I needed to see to know this was a woman’s profile.
At first i read the “ >=5 messages” as uncircumcised dick pics. And i thought “wow very specific, and apparently it works half the time”
But then my brain caught up.
3 first dates and a second date in 21 days, way to brag!
Well there are 25 guys you didn’t start a conversation with, and 17 where the conversation with you was clearly boring. I’m gonna take an educated guess an say you’re the problem.
4 dates in three weeks seems insane. Women really do have it easy I guess.
Also why would you decline dates after talking? Why are you even on a dating app if not to date?
Dating app sankey charts.
So hot right now.
Wow, this comment section is certainly interesting…
I have gotten one (not counting bots) match over three years. This is crazy to see in 21 days.
All these types of posts are missing the main data point, which is the face.
Dating app data, and the comments about the data on places like here, are always such an incredible reflection on social norms and gendered expectations that generally slips under the radar of people talking about “big picture” concepts. I always find these super interesting.
I’m sorry to be the one to break it to you, but all you did with this post is blow a whistle to the world that you are a very typical 31 year old female who is alone, and here is the data that proves why. Congrats! If anything, this is straight up depressing. What is actually beautiful in this? But most importantly: Why should we care?
If a woman is regularly looking for a partner (especially a heterosexual woman) and cannot find one, it means that there is a big problem with her.
Every woman I know (and I work in the beauty industry, so I know quite a few) who was looking for a partner found one within 2-3 months at most. Those who “looked but couldn’t find” were usually walking red flags. And often even those walking red flags had partners.
Before you write that I’m just a sexist/I hate women: I love women! Even more than men, I have more female friends than male friends.
It’s just pure statistics. As a woman, you have a much larger pool of potential partners than as a man. An average-looking woman may be asked out on more dates than an average-looking man. Unfortunately, that’s how the world works and will continue to work for a long time to come.
Don’t hate the players, hate the game.
Crazy to see a woman’s chart showing only matches not swipes/matches.
I’d love to see the same chart from a guy. But to make it fair the data would also need to include how many swipes there were
The one thing that these plots indicate to me is that swiping is a terrible, terrible way for men and women to establish any kind of relationship. Someone needs to bring back something like okcupid, and pledge not to sell out to match group. Enshitification is everywhere.
That’s what I call a Skankymatic diagram 😂
3 guys, and that’s only 21 days. The other one had 0 in a year.
Friendly reminder how things are, she ain’t yours, it’s just your turn, focus on yourself
Cut those numbers by 75% and it’s similar to a year of my time on dating apps. Luckily, I’m still married to the one and only girl I ever found there.