[OC] 3 Monate Nutzung der Hinge Dating App als Mann in den Zwanzigern

Von Caisers

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  1. Ragnarotico on

    I wish that one woman didn’t delete her post. Her like to match rate was 70%. And she only liked like two dozen people.

  2. TheGuyThatThisIs on

    What’s the profile and location like? Rural areas have a ton of dead accounts from my experience.

  3. This is standard, not a reflection of you. Don’t lose hope, you just gotta keep pushing.

    I went through many missed matches and bad dates before I found my current girlfriend (from Hinge), and we’ve happily been together for over a year.

  4. Fucking brutal but genuinely how the fuck do you mess up this bad? I’m not conventionally handsome, under average height and overweight but I still found a longterm partner after a few weeks sporadically swiping on Bumble. This has to be either a location or bad profile issue.

  5. JeromesNiece on

    The gender ratio on these apps is horrible, like 70+% male. And many of the women that are on the apps are not really interested in actually dating. Women can thus be very choosy, and most men just mathematically have no chance

  6. What was your like ratio like? That’s a lot of likes, just wondering if you were basically swiping right on anything or if it’s just that much use.

  7. Do you fully read profiles before swiping?
    As a woman In her 20s I find it wild that you found 1000+ people meeting all your dating requirements enough to swipe right on.

    In my experience I swipe right maybe 20% of the time bc those are the ones that meet what I’m looking for. I would be interested to see your total swipes in addition to just the likes.

  8. yeah i’ve given up on dating apps. what’s crazy is in bumble and tinder: without paying a subscription you get a lot of likes all of a sudden, but you can’t see their profiles; if you pay a subscription you get like 1 match per month and that’s about it (and most likely a bot/scam account).

  9. Ok_Might3377 on

    Back in the day I saw men on tinder swiping right without even looking… could that be why women have a higher match rate? The women I know also ask their male friends to look at their profiles and get feedback… I wonder if straight men do that?

  10. All_Usernames_Tooken on

    Did the same thing as a someone near 30, thousands of likes sent, 1 like back, 0 matches. Not a fan of Hinge. I still assume it must be my profile, but I’ve had several friends look it, some were women too just to help.

  11. unlucky_bit_flip on

    I rely a lot on reading body language so apps are a no-go for me. Especially since I’m still at that age where people don’t say what they really think. The only games I want to play are board games.

  12. Honestly? You’re probably doing something wrong. I started to use it in the last 3 months as well, no payments ofc, and I had WAY more conversations, 1 unsuccessful date and 1 who I dated short term. I declined a lot of conversations as well (lost interest & disappeared).
    I’m 27m who’s never been a player, just seriously and genuinely looking for a partner after a failed 3 years long relationship

  13. FascistsOnFire on

    I just go to coed rec sports, hobby groups, and meetups. If I’m friendly with a girl for a few months, I text her asking her out for coffee.

    I’ve used dating apps for 3 days simply in a moment of desperation, thinking it is the quickest way to get from single to not single. Then I snapped to and was like „no, this is going to be way more effort and take way longer than just organically participating in regular life activities and asking someone out in a reasonable context“.

  14. Quasi-Free-Thinker on

    Gotta see the profile!

    My friend was complaining about the dating pool in our area the other day. So I had him show me his profile. Terrible first photo and the prompts didn’t give much to work with.

    Hinge ain’t always great, but small tweaks to the profile make a difference (chopped or not)

  15. I think „like ignored“ is a bit of a loaded phrasing.

    Keep in mind that your profile card might not even show up to people because of the algorithm and the skewed gender ratios. Might often be no intentions there at all.

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